Anyone who’s been following me on Twitter will know I got into a bit of strife earlier today.
I tried to raise a concern with a friend about her conduct, not out of malice or to attack, but because I didn’t want her to cause offence. You might say it was none of my business, but if you see a…
I’m really surprised and kind of disappointed at this. I really dont know if someone will even read this since i haven’t posted on here for ages but now i feel like i have to because i dont want anybody to think I’m the devil, and anyone who reads laura’s post definitely will. I’m not a bad person. I am not immature nor selfish. All i am is Argentinian, which means if i feel attacked or i disagree with something, i will not keep it to myself, but go straight to the person i disagree with and tell them how i feel. Is that wrong? Am i a horrible person for expressing my opinion? Laura said ive hurt her. How? And why? If i were more sensitive i could say the same about her, but i dont get hurt that easily. To hurt me, you should do something like this. Go on on twitter and tumblr about how selfish and immature i am, instead of talking to me privately. I would do that right now but Laura has blocked me from every social media available. Its really a shame that things had to end this way, so dramatically and childish-ly. We both are adults, and im still asking myself how did everything go to hell like this…
I also dont get why she said ive been nasty. I swear i went through all the tweets ive sent her, looking for nasty words or insults and i havent found any. I did not call her an hypocrite. That was something that happened ages ago, when she dm’ed me only to tell me i was being rude to Tom. And here’s the thing, i think I’m old enough to not need to be told what i should or should not do (apart from the fact that i do not think ive ever been rude to Tom.) And i told her that her ATTITUDE was hypocrite, because she was telling me i was somehow invading the guys’ private lives and on the other hand she once did something similar (Im not saying what that is again in case she goes mad about it thinking im betraying her trust. Plus, that ‘thing’ you haven’t told me about that yourself, i found out, so, in a way, i haven’t ‘betrayed’ you. Plus, if you feel free to say publicly what my bads and mistakes are, why cant I?)
Honestly, though, with this post I am not trying to get into a fight whatsoever. Like my maestro once wrote, Im not the fighting kind. I only feel like i have to clear things up because your post made me look like a villian and those who know me know I am not.
I would really like to know what exactly did I do to ‘hurt’ you. Whatever that was, hurting you was not my intention. I just made use of freedom of speech and spoke my mind. Did I do it in a not very polite way? I honestly apologise, but let me clear this up: i wasn’t nasty. I wasn’t rude. Maybe a bit passionate on my replies. You should know that things get misinterpreted on the internet. You may have read my tweets in a yelling voice, when in reality i was calmly writing them.
We can’t agree on everything, of course we all have different opinions and I honestly respect yours, all I was saying was that what Brenda and I were doing wasn’t at all invasive nor disrespectful, and of course I never asked you to “shut the fuck up” (as you pointed out in your post) i was just asking you to not judge our behaviour because we weren’t doing anything wrong.
I really do not want to cause any more drama, and if you want to discuss this privately Im up for it. But just please stop making me look like a mean bitch because you know well I am not. We have met in person, you should know by now I’m not selfish nor immature.